Because I'm on a MEME phase...
1. How long have you been together?
328 days and counting.
2. Who pursued who?
I think its fair to say it was a mutual attraction although I still think I was conned into sleeping with her the first time.
3. Do you wear any type of wedding/commitment ring? If so, which hand?
She bought us couple rings for our 4th month anniversary. She wears hers on her left hand, middle finger. I wear mine on my necklace most days and on the same hand, either middle finger or thumb on other days, depending on my mood/dressing.
4. What was the hardest thing about learning to live together?
I'm anal about tidyness to the point of being OCD and yet she's just generally slack about it. We compromise by having a cleaning lady come in once a week to tidy up the house, wash the toilets, mop the floor and do the ironing.
5. Who takes longer to get ready in the morning?
It depends on where we are going and how I am feeling in the morning. Generally if I'm feeling slack about it, I can be up and out of the house in 15 mins flat. But if I need to dress up and stuff, it could take as long as 2 hours. She normally takes about half hour to get ready and leave the house, although some days she wastes so much time in front of the computer, she ends up being late.
6. Do you usually eat breakfast together?
We used to, but now I just don't get up early enough and we're both lazy. We still do so on days when we don't work though. Hurray for weekends and holidays!
7. Do you ever share clothes?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! *cough*
I won't be caught dead in her clothes, even though I bought most of them. Doesn't help that I've put on some weight, so it wouldn't fit anyway... She, on the other hand, now has access to my clothes that has multiplied her wardrobe by 10 times. I love dressing her up though. It's so fun, like I have a life sized Barbie doll 
8. Who does most of the cooking?
I love cooking and I get home earlier anyway, so I cook most of the time. But she does cook sometimes, especially when I'm sick or just plain lazy.
9. Who usually takes out the trash?
She does.
10. If you have pets who usually does litter box or poop patrol?
The hammies are mine, so I do the feeding, cleaning and messing around with their cages.
11. Which one of you is more likely to answer the phone when it rings?
We only just got a home phone line and so far it seems like I'm the only one who answers it.
12. Who's in charge of the remote if you're watching TV together?
That would be me. I like channel surfing and she's normally just keeping me company on the couch.
13. Who usually drives when you go out together?
I do cos she doesn't have her driver's license yet.
14. Which one of you takes care of spiders and bugs that get into the house?
She does. I would if I have to, but since she issn't normally as grossed out as I am, she does it.
15. Facing the bed, who sleeps on which side?
Facing the foot of the bed: She sleeps on the left side, which is inside and I sleep on the right side which is outside. Mainly because I need to get up and pee so much in the middle of the night.
16. Who usually checks the (postal) mailbox?
It used to be me, but lately she's taken to doing it.
17. If something breaks or goes wrong in the house, which one of you is more likely to either fix it or call someone to fix it?
Since its technically my place, I'm usually the one to complain about something that needs fixing and she normally volunteers to try to get it fixed. But for certain things, I'm the one who will call for the repairman, especially those whom I have called before.
18. Who is generally the neater of you?
I think its me. I have a natural compulsion to see things being put in their rightful places, although I do go through untidy phases of that as well.
19. Who handles the checkbook/pays the bills?
She pays for some, I pay for the others. Right now its like I pay for electricity and some other house stuff like the cleaning lady, she pays for internet, cable TV and the groceries. We haven't really worked out a real system yet, although I suppose we'll get around to doing it at some point.
20. What was your last fight/disagreement about?
I don't remember. The thing about being with her is that I only seem to remember the happy times clearly and the fights/arguments don't seem to register fully. Also, she tends to let me have my way alot, so we seldom end up fighting. I'm sure she has a different view of this though.
21. When you slow dance together, who leads?
I think we just kinda hug each other and dance together, neither of us really leading.
22. What do you love the most about your other half?
The fact that she has restored my faith in love and made me truly believe that life can be worth living afterall
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